標籤彙整: Emotional hunger.

Is the generality of the happy family.

Many Chinese couples is hope your spouse to love reflects on the careful and considerate care. If this is true, but only action,
Not line, can give a person with “only the main course, no seasoning" sense of defects?
Tolstoy once said, “happy families are all the same, but unhappy family is unhappy in its own way". Is the generality of the happy family,
Have the following items:
1. The childlike innocence
In fact only a childlike innocence, the youth will be always, love can only be enduring, so it’s best to reserve your innocence, purity, much more
Have any interest, curiosity. Although outside when “gentleman", but at home, you’d better when the door shuts a big child.
2. Romantic
Many Chinese families is too practical and lack of romance. Do not think that romance is endless, dancing a bunch of flowers, do not think that don’t have the time,
No money, no romance. Want to know, romance is in the form of rich and colorful and varied.
3. Humor
Talk humor can dissolve, buffer conflicts and disputes, break down the barriers between the embarrassment and, increase the interest and the emotion, let the family harmonious.
4. Close
Many couples often intimacy as sticky sticky, explain “no intimacy in public" is not frivolous. But experts study found that intimacy
Has a wonderful effect on improve the quality of family life, and the long-term need hug and kiss people prone to “skin hunger", then
Emotional hunger.
5….
Psychologists say: every day at least more than three words to each other between spouses emotional line, such as “I love you", “I like it
You so-and-so “. However, many people attention too reserved, rarely hang love in the mouth, think this is shallow, is disgusting. A lot
The husband and wife is hope your spouse to love reflects on the careful and considerate care. If this is true, but only action, there is no line, will be
Don’t give a person with “only the main course, no seasoning" sense of defects?
6. Communication
Many Chinese couples to suppress opinion, unhappy in psychological, don’t say, also known as “good temperament, has the tutelage. In fact, each other close
Lock, can only lead to misunderstanding deepen, chronic stress is equal to the malignant energy, once the outbreak, more destructive.
Normal approach should be to strengthen communication, have an opinion, unhappiness should be sincere, gentle, pay attention to strategy to speak out, and often actively
Understand each other’s ideas. Quarrel is not necessarily a bad thing, after all, it is also a kind of means of communication, but should be practical, people don’t
Body attack.
7. Enjoy
People often use appreciation view of their own children, so always feel “the child is his own best"; Because the common critical eye again
See a spouse, so always think wife (husband) is the good in people.
To evaluate the same thing with different taste, conclusions will be different. If you are without a count the spouse’s many shortcomings,
So what do you mostly lack of appreciation. If you face to face, behind only the advantage of spouse, so, you have learned to love,
And can harvest to love.